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Biography
William W.
Willimon is Dean of the Chapel and Professor of Christian
Ministry at Duke University in Durham, North Carolina. Dr. Willimon
began his ministry as a United Methodist pastor for churches in Georgia
and South Carolina. He is the author of over fifteen books and also
Editor at Large for two outstanding publications: "Christian Century"
and "The Door." [Biographical information is correct as of the broadcast
date noted above.]
"Harmless
Hospitality"
A few weeks ago I was to speak at the Lutheran Theological Seminary in
Philadelphia. I took the last flight out of Durham. We landed late. A
hair-raising, fifty-dollar, one-hour cab ride later, I was deposited at
a now utterly dark, locked up tight, Lutheran Seminary. Had no idea
where I was supposed to sleep. I wandered about, Willy Loman-like, bag
in hand, trying this door and that, everything locked and dark. It was
midnight. Finally, I saw one last light in a house on campus. In
desperation I knocked on the back door. A woman came and peered out
through the screen door. I told her who I was. She invited me in. As it
turned out, her husband was the only person I knew at the seminary —
John Vannorsdahl, the President. He wasn't home, but Pat graciously fed
me, phoned for me, got me to where I was supposed to be. It's great to
be on the receiving end of hospitality offered to a stranger.
"I don't usually open the door at night when John is away," said Pat.
"It's a tough neighborhood. But you looked harmless." I am. As a
Methodist preacher wandering around Philadelphia at midnight, I am
harmless.
But if you're a woman alone, be careful how you open your door to
strangers. It is not always great to be on the giving end of
hospitality. Thus we come to our scripture lessons for today, stories
about women who opened their doors to strangers and got surprised.
There was this wealthy woman over in Shuneme. Any time Prophet Elisha
happened to go through town, she invited him over for fried chicken,
biscuits, gravy, and squash. It's in the Bible.
She said to her husband, "This is a real prophet, this bald-headed man
of God who's always stopping by for lunch. Let's build him a special
room so he can stay here whenever he likes."
My grandmother's house had a room called "The Prophet's Chamber" which
was set aside for traveling Methodist preachers. This is where the term
came from — the room which the Shunamite woman set aside for Elisha.
Elisha loved the room as much as he loved her cooking. So he says to
her, "I want to repay you for your hospitality. Name whatever you need,
it's yours." Well, I told you she was rich. She tells Elisha thanks, but
she's well fixed and doesn't need a thing.
"What on earth can I gave an old woman who's got everything?" Elisha
asks his servant. "Well," says the servant, "she's got no son and,
although her husband is a rich man, he's old." "Great idea!" says Elisha.
"Call her over and I'll give her the good news."
"At this season, when the time comes around, you shall embrace a son,"
Elisha tells her. "I'll embrace what?" she said (as she turned up the
volume on her hearing aid). "Young man, do you know how old I am? Have
you seen my husband? Who said I wanted a son?"
Nine months later, The Thursday Afternoon Book Club really had something
to talk about.
Moral: Be careful about being nice to prophets. A cup of tea perhaps, a
light lunch, but be wary of overnight sleep overs.
There were a couple of sisters over in Bethany — Mary (who loved to sit
around and talk about great ideas) and Martha (who loved to throw big
dinner parties and make cakes from scratch). Jesus was on the road
traveling and Martha invited him in for a big meal. (Remind you of the
Shunamite woman?)
Now put Jesus' visit to Martha in context. Do you remember the story
which Jesus told to the lawyer? The Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37). A
man, on his way to Jericho, falls among thieves. They beat him up, leave
him "half dead." Now, two men go down the road: a priest, a pious
layperson. They both pass by the unfortunate traveler without helping. A
Samaritan, a lousy Samaritan, was the only one who stopped and helped
the suffering stranger, receiving him, bandaging him, risking his own
life for the life of the wounded stranger. "Go, do likewise," says
Jesus.
So maybe Martha heard that story of the good Samaritan and took it to
heart. Here is Jesus, out in the road. "Come on over to our house," she
says. "In two hours I'll whip you up the best kosher meal you ever ate."
See? Martha is doing what Jesus said to do. She has gone and "done
likewise" — received this hungry, needy stranger into her house. And
she's in there working like a dog (before the days of Kenmore or
Cuisinart). But there's her sister, Mary, lounging at the feet of Jesus
as he explains to her the finer points of the Nicene Creed.
"Hey," says Martha, wiping her dishpan hands on her apron, "Jesus, how
about telling that egghead sister of mine to get in here and help? ‘Go,
do likewise;' right, Jesus?" "Wrong, Martha," says Jesus. "Settle down
and let's talk. Doing is OK. But there's much to be said for doing
nothing, for listening. Mary knows. I'm not just passing through town on
my way to Jerusalem. I'm on my way to Calvary — passing through life to
death. A few weeks and I'm outta here for good. Then you'll need the
Word more than food. Your fresh baked rolls are great, Martha, but as
they say, ‘You can't live by bread alone' (Deut. 8:3; Luke 4:4)."
He spoke these tough words to busy Martha just a few verses after he
took his sharp left turn toward Jerusalem (9:51). The strange man of God
that Martha invited to dinner has a cross on his back. What's more,
opening your door to Jesus, asking him in, is not just a matter of
fixing up a few nice things for the preacher. It's a matter of Martha
taking up her cross as well.
Remind you of Elisha and Shunammite woman? Open your door to a man of
God, you might get surprised. God's intrusions are rarely harmless.
"Look, all I wanted was a little food, polite conversation." What the
Shunammite woman got was a trip from the geriatric ward to the maternity
ward!
Now Martha invites Jesus in. "Look, Jesus, we were supposed to have a
nice evening, a little activism, collection of canned goods for the less
fortunate, old clothes for the poor. You have to go spoil everything by
this depressing talk of death. How much is this meal going to cost me,
anyway?"
Open your door to God. O.K. Just remember: this is a real God, not some
make-believe image of ourselves, not some tame deity you can have over
for a chat. Break bread at the table of the living God, you don't know
how you'll be surprised.
The Shunammite woman was like a lot of us. She was well fixed, yes. But
her life was still fixed. Well fixed can be — well fixed! The diamonds
were nice, and the spring cruise. But at her age, with no child (which
then meant no future) about all she could do is settle into what is,
redecorate the den, add on a wing for the nice new young preacher. Her
life was fixed.
When she opened her door to the bald prophet and finds out that Rev.
Elisha is more of a man of God than even she expected. He gives her more
than her heart's desire, some gifts she could not dare to ask for
because she dared not to conceive it possible. God's presence intrudes,
not always bringing what we asked for, but what God knows we need.
Martha opened her door to a similar divine intrusion. Conventional
rabbis did not go to a single woman's house, much less waste their
wisdom in teaching women. Jesus makes Mary and Martha disciples. Jesus
will not spoon feed them, patronize them with innocuous religious
platitudes. He gives the truth of His way to them with both barrels,
even though it be truth which is ambiguous, not easily defined, much
less lived. "Get out of the kitchen, listen, learn, follow me," He says.
Martha, like her Shunammite sister, also receives a gift, but, like that
given to the women of Shunem, not the gift Martha expected. She, with
Mary, is taken seriously, given opportunity to be a full disciple of the
one who proclaims the intruding, barrier-breaking, living God.
Be careful to whom you open your door, and whom you invite to sit at
table.
A pastor in Florida told me of how her congregation became concerned
about the plight of the homeless in her city. They could see them,
wandering the streets at night, sleeping in doorways.
"We've got this big fellowship hall downstairs," she told her
congregation. "Why don't we simply invite these homeless men to come
spend the night here?" Why not? How nice of the church to do something
for the homeless!
The first night, fifty-five homeless men entered the fellowship hall to
spend the night. She said, "Now you take fifty-five homeless men off the
streets and put them into a Methodist fellowship hall, you've got
problems. First of all, we found out that there's a reason why many of
them are homeless. Nobody wants them. Crazy, sick, offensive,
malnourished, addicted. We had never actually met any homeless people.
It was rough at first. Fights. A robbery. Somebody came down to
distribute food one night and got roughed up. It was a mess. All we
wanted to do was to be nice to some homeless men."
"So what happened?" I asked.
"So what happened was — we actually became a church. We had two choices.
Either throw them out or else do what was necessary to be the sort of
place that could show hospitality to fifty-five homeless people. By the
grace of God, we chose the latter. Medical care, food, counseling,
support hand-holding, and listening were developed. Our congregation was
converted from a friendly, ordinary, religious club — protecting its
club house — to a committed, bold church, 'cause when we opened our
doors to fifty-five homeless men, guess who else got in with them?"
"The One who said, ‘inasmuch as you have done it to the least of these
(surprise!) you've done it to me'?" I asked.
"Right," she said.
I wonder if, in your life right now, there is a knock at your door. I
wonder (I'm just asking) if where you are now living, there's a stranger
outside waiting for you to open up. That tug at the heart, that tap upon
the door, it could be you-know-who. "Behold, I stand at the door and
knock," He said.
Let's go ahead and let Him in. You want to ask Him in? What harm could
He do?
Interview with Orley
Herron
Interviewed by William Willimon
Orley Herron:
Will, that was a great message. Mark Hatfield, the
United States Senator from Oregon said, "If each church and each temple in
America would adopt one family unit who is homeless, or one homeless person, we
would not have any more homeless people." What do you think about that?
William Willimon: It is a creative,
peculiarly Christian idea from Senator Hatfield. Personally, I don't have much
faith in government solving this issue because I don't think government has the
resources, intellectually or spiritually, to really reach out to troubled people
who are homeless. I guess in light of my sermon, I also think it would be an
excellent idea for us to meet the strangers. As Christians we have long felt we
were received as strangers by Jesus, the Stranger, and that means that we should
look upon this as a grand opportunity. Unfortunately, I think a lot of us
Christians have gotten into the habit of thinking that certain things are the
government's problem. I really think the church has better resources for truly
dealing with these issues in a way that is beyond the economic.
Herron: Well, we need to do something about
it. As Mark said, if as a church or temple we can get involved, we can make a
difference. Tell me what does a Dean of a Chapel of a university really do?
Willimon: I sort of preside at Duke
University Chapel, which is in the middle of the Duke campus. We have services
every Sunday of the year and most of the campus ministry offices are located
there. We have a full range of campus ministry functions. Hillel, the Jewish
student organization, Catholics and various kinds of Protestants are located
there. So, it is exciting being part of an ecumenical ministry on a university
campus.
Herron: When you were a pastor, I am sure
you had some perceptions about college and university students. Now that you are
full-time on a university campus, is there any difference in your perceptions?
Willimon: I was a student in the sixties and
I feel very old sometimes when I am talking to students, because in the sixties
I think we, as students, were very idealistic, altruistic. We had a lot of
faith. I think we felt that our parents had sort of messed up the system. We
felt there would be nothing wrong with the system once we started running it. I
find students today rather cynical about politics. We had great optimism and
confidence that we could solve it.
When I talk like that to today's students, they sort of smile as if that is a
very old-fashioned idea. People seem much more interested in getting their own
lives together. However, I notice there is a great deal of quiet altruism and
interest in one-to-one volunteerism. At first I thought our students were
markedly more conservative than we were. That is part of it, but they are
impressed that the problems of the world are immensely complicated, that
political solutions have their limits. It is a very different student mood.
Herron: You teach preaching and practical
ministry in the seminary?
Willimon: Yes.
Herron: Are you encouraged by the quality of
the student who plans to go into the ministry today?
Willimon: Some and some not. Some days I
grieve for the church and the future. I think ministry has always attracted
certain young people. The age of our seminarians seems to be rising. We have
more second career people in seminary. I am at a United Methodist seminary. The
Protestant mainline in America is having a struggle finding its own identity and
what it is to be in the future. We have suffered great losses in most of the
mainline Protestant denominations. I think that affects the ethos of the
seminary. The good news is that a lot of our students are grappling creatively
with what the church of the future will be. There seems to be a great interest
in
preaching and recovering the Biblical witness and the integrity of the church in
ways that are positive to the church of the future.
Herron: Will, as a college president myself,
I relate to my deans and listen to them as we plan the future of our university.
Do you have a great influence on the future of Duke University as the Dean of
the University Chapel?
Willimon: I don't know. I am thankful the
University gives me space and a beautiful chapel to preach the gospel and
articulate the Christian faith as best I can. I think about the best you can say
about the modern university is that it is mirror of modern society at its best
and its worst. Every time I criticize our students, I think that they are
probably a lot like us, their parents. It's about the worst you can say about
them. I think that as a clergyman there I have a responsibility to do the best
job I can, articulating a peculiarly Christian witness. Sometimes I succeed at
that and sometimes I fail. To the degree that I succeed, I think I do have
ability to influence the university. In the university, like our society in
general, we are not too sure what to do with religion — what role it will play
in the formulation of policy within a pluralistic society. I think Christians
have their hands full just trying to decide who we are and staying Christian
before we start charting the course of modern society or modern institutions.
The university is an exciting place to be.
Herron: I taught as a graduate professor of
higher education. It is amazing when you look back, Will, on the founding of our
institutions of higher learning. They had a spiritual root. It was not uncommon
for ministers and clergy people to be the presidents of those institutions. You
have attended schools that had great moorings religiously but they have kind of
veered from that today.
Willimon: This morning I was preaching at
the University of Chicago. There is a tablet out on their chapel which said that
it was expected that the Christian faith would be the dominant influence at this
institution. It is quite a different world today. In a way I think that a lot of
that was based on some erroneous assumptions that somehow Christians could
dominate their culture and determine policy. Now Christians feel very much like
we are more on the fringe of this culture. At its best, I think that gives us an
opportunity to look at ourselves and wonder what is the distinctively Christian
witness.
One of my problems is when Christians speak out on political matters or public
policy issues today. I don't know that we are saying anything different than
anybody else is saying. I think the best thing we can do for the world is to
talk like Christians, so that when we are asked to speak up at the university,
we are not saying just more secular philosophy with a little religious veneer
but are saying something the world could not hear if it weren't for us being
there. That interests me.
Herron: What is the difference from the
religious point of view and the secular point of view?
Willimon: For one thing, just apropos of my
talk today, we Christians are accountable to scripture. We are those people who
attempt to live and look at the world and come up with solutions on the basis of
this strange account of the world called the Bible. We must take that seriously.
Herron: What would you say as the Dean of a
Chapel to college or university presidents today?
Willimon: I am always giving my President
advice! But, he is a psychiatrist, so he is always giving me advice. I am really
impressed by the workings of a modern university. It is tough, particularly in
an age when there is no real consensus about what we should ask from the
intellectual life. What does a wise person look like? I went to a small
church-related college and I think that when I went there, there was a kind of
confidence on the part of the administration and the faculty. We knew, more or
less, what an educated person ought to resemble. It exposed us to certain things
and formed us in certain ways. I don't find the university today working on that
kind of consensus. I think that makes it tough for administrators.
We are in a time of arguing about what an educated person looks like. I applaud
the university when it struggles with that. For instance, this past year we had
a program for our freshmen on ethics on campus, relating to their fellow
students and relating to other cultures. That has not been done on our campus, I
bet, in fifteen or twenty years. I thought that was an interesting new move to
again say, "We really have a responsibility for the sort of moral development of
the people who come to our university." I thought that was positive.
Herron: Do you find the students on your
university campus open to discuss religious values?
Willimon: To some degree. To another degree,
they are almost as frightened as their parents. "What do we do once we get these
religious questions on the table? Are we going to start fighting with each
other? What is going to happen?" I find students on our campus resemble the
larger society. I think our larger society hopes that we can defer a lot of
questions and just go on and become doctors, lawyers, business people, and
professors. I exist to raise the issue and I am glad to discuss it with anybody
who will talk to me about it on our campus.
Herron: You have a big role and we are
delighted you have been here. We hope to see you again.
Willimon: It's good to be here again.
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